The War and Treaty's Michael and Tanya Make Every Day a Date Night

The War and Treaty singers Michael Trotter Jr. and Tanya Trotter bring their love story to life each time they take the stage.

The couple met in 2010 and soon tied the knot, but Michael initially thought he ruined his chance with his now-wife. “We started working and hanging out a little bit professionally. … I decided I was going to tell her how I felt,” he recalled in a 2013 interview. “We were texting back-and-forth, and she told me I left my sweater at her house and she asked what I was going to leave next. So I told her, ‘My heart.’”

He continued, “I tried to have a little Jerry McGuire moment, ‘You had me at hello,’ and Tanya hung the phone up. I didn’t hear back from her until the next day around 12:30 p.m. The whole night I was thinking that I’d just ruined the relationship. But she called me, and we went out to dinner and the movies. And we’ve been together since.”

Michael and Tanya lean on one another for support both on stage and off. Before The War and Treaty was formed, Michael served in Iraq and developed PTSD from his time in the U.S. Army. He hit a particularly low point in 2017, but Tanya was there to pick him back up.

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“Every single day I see the joy and fire in Michael, and that’s the joy and fire I need,” she told The San Diego Union-Tribune in 2022.

Scroll down for a glimpse inside Michael and Tanya’s relationship:

2010

The couple met at a festival in Maryland. “He was performing there, and he blew me away,” Tanya recalled to People. Michael, however, had his sights set on Tanya “a long time” before they crossed paths. “I saw her on the big screen back in the ’90s [in Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit] and I was like, ‘That is my wife right there,’” he teased.

2014

The musicians officially founded their band. Three years later, they dropped their EP Down to the River.

2018

The War and Treaty’s debut record, Healing Tide, was released in August.

2021

Michael and his wife took the stage with Dierks Bentley at the 56th annual ACM Awards, performing a cover of U2’s “Pride (In the Name of Love).”

2022

The couple performed the Rolling Stones hit “It’s Only Rock ‘n’ Roll (But I Like It)” with Brothers Osborne at the 56th annual CMA Awards. That same day, Michael and Tanya released a surprise EP titled Blank Page.

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2023

The War and Treaty earned their first nominations for the CMT Music Awards, ACM Awards and CMA Awards following the release of their album Lover’s Game. Zach Bryan also tapped the duo for the song “Hey Driver” from his self-titled record.

“It was such a fun experience, and we’re very grateful for him shining his light on us. And yeah, it changed the game for us,” Michael told Variety of the collaboration.

The pair also earned their first Grammy nominations, competing for Best New Artist and Best American Roots Song.

2024

The twosome performed during the “In Memoriam” segment at the 75th annual Emmy Awards in January, singing “See You Again” with Charlie Puth and a special rendition of the Friends theme song.

One month later, Michael and Tanya rocked the 2024 Grammys red carpet in a chartreuse green suit and a lavender purple dress, respectively. “Arriving in style at the #2024grammys ,” the captioned Instagram pics of their looks in February 2024. Although they ended the night without any awards, they congratulated their fellow nominees via Instagram.

In September, the couple enjoyed a night out at the 2024 People’s Choice Country Awards where they were up for Group/Duo of 2024. While on the red carpet, the singers exclusively caught up with Us Weekly about how they treat every moment together as a special occasion.

“Every day’s a date. He gets me lunch almost every day,” Tanya gushed of her husband. “Yeah, he’s very special and I try to do the best I can. I try to keep up with him.”

Michael added that the pair’s working and personal relationship is “a partnership all the way around.”